Money often proves to be a persistent source of struggle for many individuals, causing trauma, scarcity, necessity, and disappointment in various aspects of their lives.
Ever wondered whether money is the problem or something else? What if money isn’t the problem, but you are? Did you buy into someone else’s money problem or did you create it yourself?
Money is simply a choice. Whether you choose to have it or not depends on YOU!
Now I’m sure this sounds like a truckload of c**p. How can it be possible that although I want money, I am the reason that hinders its creation. Over time, as I reflected on my financial situation and the emotional baggage I carried regarding money, I came to realize that my own limitations were preventing me from making choices that could lead to financial abundance. I knew I had total control over my money problems, yet I was always choosing the same things and expecting a different outcome for my financial reality. I was trying to earn from a point of view of lack and need, rather than the joy of creating money. Stay with me, it gets easier to understand I promise.
What do I mean by limitation?
I had several points of view about money and some were my own, some through experiences, and 99.99999% of the others were all the lies I had bought into about other people’s points of view. I was subconsciously choosing to limit myself to be less prosperous to prove all my points of view right about how much I lacked in my life, how unhappy I am because of that lack and so on. Although I wanted to earn a lot of money, my constant judgement of it led to not receiving any at all. The day I acknowledged that I had these points of view, my financial reality changed. I know this sounds too easy and trust me, IT IS.
My POV (point of view)- I didn’t think it was easy to earn money and believed I had to work hard to earn it. I created so many obstacles to prove my point of view right. When I acknowledged that as just a point of view and not a reality, I started receiving it. I received gifts, I received a bank transfer from a person who owed me, and one day I realized I had kept a huge amount of cash in my purse which I had forgotten about.
Money is easy, I just sat at home and received it without going into the wrongness of how easily it was showing up. It just started showing up because I was willing to receive it without any point of view/judgment. I was now receiving it with joy rather than the fear of running out of it and working really hard to earn the money I spent.
A few common opinions/ judgements/points of view about money:
It comes only with hard work
It is the root cause of all evil
Rich people are arrogant
It makes relationships fall apart
I don’t deserve it
I am not smart enough/qualified enough to make so much, and many more.
All these statements are what we pick up subconsciously through movies, media, friends, family and society as a whole.
I will explain how these points of view cut off your financial receiving. Let’s work with this Eg 1: “Rich people are arrogant”.
If you judge ‘arrogance’ and ‘pride’ as wrongness and associate that with being rich, will you ever be able to make tons of money? The judgment, that being arrogant is wrong and rich people are arrogant = I will not create truckloads of money because I don’t want to be judged as an arrogant person. You subconsciously choose to have less money because you don’t want people to judge you. Your judgements and points of view about money and also the unwillingness to receive judgment cut off your receiving.
Eg 2: “I don’t deserve money/ I am not smart enough/ I am not qualified enough to make money”.
All these points of view are either embedded through some experience of our own or, we have picked it up from someone else. We’ve all witnessed individuals whom we might not perceive as particularly intelligent, yet they’ve managed to accumulate significant wealth. Similarly, there are those who may appear under-qualified, but their businesses or jobs thrive remarkably. Now is it the degree or smartness that got them the job? Or is it their willingness to go out there and receive money? These kinds of people don’t have any judgment about the importance of a degree, or how smart they are, they just want money and they create it!
“Oh! I really need this degree, experience etc. and only then can I be rich and earn money”. Is that the truth? Or is it just your point of view?
I can give you infinite examples of such points of view, but you get the jist of how points of view and judgements can limit our receiving.
What do you love about money/what do you hate about it? What do you love about not having money? What do you hate about having lots of money?
All your points of view about it contribute to your financial reality. How much do you resist it because of making it wrong and evil? Do you make money and rich people wrong? Are you unable to receive money because you have concluded that money is the root of all evil?
Let’s start with the basics. You are thinking, I get it and I am aware of my judgments and points of view but now what? How do I earn more money?
Clear your points of view on money
Ask questions
Be in ‘Interesting Point of View’ about every point of view, whether yours or someone else’s. Do not buy into other people’s truths and doubts about finances
Change the stress around money, and find joy. Money follows the energy of Joy.
We spoke briefly about how points of view can limit our receiving and block money. Let’s dive into the second point of asking questions.
A few questions that you can ask about money:
What can I Choose to have more of it
What will it take for me to receive it with ease?
What can I change to have and receive it with ease?
What judgements and points of view are limiting my financial reality
“Money is an energy that allows you to be more of yourself. BE YOU and Be rich, it’s simple”- Ruhanie
Being in an ‘Interesting Point of View’ rather than judgements, will create more possibilities. If you make judgements and statements like money only comes with hard work, that is a conclusion. How can there be any other possibility if you already know the conclusion? If you keep making choices based on a stuck point of view, how can you expect anything different to show up? Being in an interesting point of view allows you to be aware of everything without any judgment and gives you the freedom to choose.
“Conclusions = No possibilities”
Are you willing to make the ask and let the possibilities show up?
Money will show up if you don’t pay too much attention in desperation for it to show up. Put it into the universe and leave it. Ask questions and allow the universe to shower you with different possibilities and then choose.
For eg: In an expensive shop, look around and ask,” I would like to have one of those. What will it take for the money to show up for this? “
Asking for it even if you can’t afford it, without having a judgment that you can’t afford it, don’t go into the wrongness of the situation and yourself, rather say, someday I will come back to get this. What will it take for me to afford this?
Exercise: Go to the most expensive store with the intention that you could have anything, then ask, what is it that I truly desire? Will buying or having it contribute to me? If money wasn’t the issue what would I choose?
*Food for thought*: We make money more dominant and powerful than ourselves and to prove our point of view that we don’t have enough, we look at things and justify that it’s too expensive and we can’t afford it, hence we are not wealthy enough. But if you had all the money in the world would you still choose it??
“Your relationship with money is what defines the possibilities you can create with it”- Ruhanie
I have put in a few small nuggets to ignite this thought around money and how we create these limitations and stress around it. Watch out for the next few blogs where I will be diving in deeper and placing some more life-changing tools in addition to these, for you to create your own reality of financial abundance! Some of this may not be relatable cognitively, but if it makes your energy shift in any way, maybe that’s the awareness and starting point for you.
**What energy, space, consciousness, magic, mysteries, miracles and possibilities can you be to have total ease with money for all of eternity? Everything that doesn’t allow that destroy and uncreate times a godzillion. Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC all 9 shorts boys and beyonds **
Beware, this might make you rich!!
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